A feminine wedding suit can be shaped around the waist, bust and hips while still retaining the sharp, sophisticated character of tailoring.
You might prefer:
A more defined waist
Shaped jacket seams
Higher-waisted trousers
A softer shoulder
A narrower lapel
A fitted waistcoat
A softer fabric
Elegant tuxedo styling
The benefit of made-to-measure or bespoke is that the proportions can be adapted around you rather than requiring your body to adapt to the suit. The result should feel like a well fitted suit — just one designed to flatter the silhouette you want.